Sunday, March 3, 2013

And we are back in the pool

A few weeks ago I met someone online that seemed like a good guy and I enjoyed his company.

Except for the part he was married....

Now you might ask, how did I find out because he certainly didn't tell me?

I am good at research and listen to my inner voice.

Some tips for people in the online dating pool:

1. Listen to your inner voice.

2. Do your research. It's not to catch them in a lie but to verify they are telling the truth. The people telling the truth have no problem with you verifying that they are who they say they are.

3. Use all websites that are available like public courts, google, etc. Remember, we can be whomever we want to be online.

4. If they have no online presence, that should worry you.

5. Make sure you are able to connect all the dots.

If things don't add up....search, search, search.

By listening to my inner voice, I was able to finally connect the dots and find out that he was lying and was married.

Onward and upward!